A few months back my son's girlfriend passed a test. Not the kind that you want a teenage girl to pass. They were both scared, and the telling of the truth was put off until the pregnancy couldn't be ignored any longer. To say everyone was upset would be an understatement, but what was done was done, and there was no way that any of us were going to let them face it alone. It hasn't been easy, there has been friction.
Yesterday I became a grandmother. Born just after one in the afternoon, a little baby boy. He came into this world four weeks early, but is quite healthy and doing just fine. 5 pounds, 13 ounces. 19 inches long. Welcome, little one.
The kids have decided on adoption, in my opinion the wisest choice. The adoptive family is here, preliminary papers have been signed. Everything will be finalized tomorrow. This is to be an open adoption, so that we may all watch young Chase grow up. The family seems to be very nice, they have tried for years to have a child with no luck, and are excited to the point of tears to finally have a baby in their lives. I am thrilled for them.
Most folks don't know, but *I* was adopted way back when. Mine is not an open adoption, so I will never know about my birth parents. But then again, I was never all that curious. Being adopted gives me a somewhat unique view on the situation, quite frankly I think adoption is a wonderful thing.
That being said, I made it very clear from the beginning that I would support whatever decision was made. And I have stood by that. The baby and his new family will leave sometime next week for home. Just as soon as the interstate agreement is finalized so that they may transport a newborn (not of their parentage) across state lines. I wish baby boy Chase, Daddy Doug, and Mom Tiffany a wonderful journey through parenthood. Their dream has come true.
Happy Independence Day
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